Can A Man's Man Be A Candle Maker?

Candles.  Who likes them?  Who makes them?  Are they something reserved to be admired by only females in our society?  Can a man's man be a man if he likes the way candles look and smell? 

Let me introduce myself....I'm Bill.  I like candles.  I like the way they look.  I like the way they smell.  And yes, I make them.  Why?  I really can't explain the answer to that question.  But, candles interest me.  And yes, I've toyed with the thought of making them for years.  So what stopped me from trying my hand at candle making?  Maybe it's the thought of some hidden, feminine side of me coming out.  I don't think so!  You see, I consider myself to be a man's man.  I hunt, I fish, I bring home the bacon, I channel surf with the remote while laying on the couch.  Yes, I drive my wife nuts just like any real man does.   You know, like why does she feel the need to remind me every six months that the leaky faucet needs fixing?  Honey, don't worry...I have it on my list of things to do and I will take care it. 

Well, this year, thanks to the thoughtfulness of my wife who makes mental notes of every passing comment I make in order to surprise me with gifts for my birthday and Christmas, I started making candles.  For my birthday, she bought me some candle making supplies and my quest to develop the perfect candle started to take shape. 

How hard could it be?  All you need is a jar, some wax, fragrance oil, a wick and pot to melt the wax and your done.  Well, I've found that it's not that easy.  Although I thought the first candle I made would put any Yankee Candle to shame.  Yes, my wife just smiled and agreed.  Now that I look back on the first candle, I've come to realize my wife's smile was just a simple token of love. 

I started this blog to allow you to follow my quest to make the perfect candle, to allow you to share your thoughts on what makes the perfect candle, and to show that a man's man can be a candle maker.